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Przeworsk and Prague

Last weekend I went to Przeworsk where my family lives. Przeworsk is a small town to the east of poland, just outside of Ukraine. It takes about 3 hours to get there by train but the trip is well worth it. All I did was eat and talk polish! They really know how to treat their family well. Or maybe they just know how to treat a poor, hungry student well. I call them family, but they don’t necessarily feel like close family yet. I just met them 5 weeks ago and have only visited them twice. They feel more like close friends who I love to see. My dad met them 30 years ago when he traveled to Poland with his dad. If he had never kept their address and information, I would be missing out on some of the best meals I’ve ever had and some of the best people I’ve ever met!

The train on the way back to Kraków was fantastic. It was as if I was traveling on some kind of communist-era Harry Potter train (that’s how most of the train’s are in Poland). And to top it off, we were traveling through thick, early-morning fog. As the train was pulling away from Przeworsk, I poked my head out the window and waved goodbye to my polish grandparents. I’ve never experienced anything more dreamy. The scenery on the way to Krakow is beautiful too. Small farm towns seperate the larger towns like Tarnów and Rzeszów. And inbetween the small farm towns are beautiful rustic forests. Along the horizon there are small hills that eventually lead up to the Carpathian mountains. And at every railroad crossing, there are usually two or three old Polish men riding their old bicycles. I could go to Przeworsk every weekend.

Of course, I’m excluding the fact that there were five old men sharing a cabin with me, four of which smoked and drank the whole time even though it was only 7 am. That’s Poland.

A few weekends before that I was invited to Prague by a friend, Richard, I met during the first week I was in Kraków. I went with a friend from the United Kingdom. He lives just outside of Prague in a small farm town. Yes, he owns a farm with cows and pigs. And yes, I got to farm! Besides all of the beauty (and ridiculous tourist traps) of Prague, the best part of my trip was my time as a farmer. Before we started working on Sunday, he brought us to church in this small town outside of his small town. To get there we had to drive through the rolling hills and rustic, old towns of eastern Czech. Once we got there, we drove through the original 700 year old town gate that led up to his church which was about 600 years old. Church service was interesting, but I couldn’t understand anything. (It was also interesting because it was “All-Saints-day” and no one was in church. It turns out the Czech Republic is not very religious. However, Poland has a very unique way of celebrating this day. Everyone- religious or not- goes to the cemetary and lights a candle. Unfortunately, I was in Prague and didn’t get to see it).

After church, we hopped in his big, white, VW hippie van and drove to this warehouse where he had 2000 pounds of potatoes waiting to be carried to his farm. They don’t make much money, so to feed their cows, they trade cow meat for potatoes with other farmers. Once we got all of the potatoes sacks in his van, we drove to his farm where his uncle and brother were waiting to help unload. The first thing I saw when we got to his farm was his big rottweiler knawing on a head that most likely came from a duck. I will always remember that.

I only helped him “farm” for one day, but in that one day I was able to see a Czech Republic that most tourists never see. Everyone in the world should see Prague, but after the beauty and the history, the city turns into a money eater. The American dollar was worth nothing. It was enough to buy an eigth of a Burger King cheeseburger (I had to go there because the exchange office took a lot more commission than they said they would – 0% – never trust a sign that says “0%”.) I left Prague with no money, cow sh**t on my pants and shoes, potatoe resin on my sweater, and dog slober on my jacket. I loved it.

My next adventure is France. But more on that later. Now, I have to get back to Poland.

Do Widzenia!

- John Kotleta

The Return

So I never got the chance to write a last blog entry while in Europe, but an entry the day after I get home is as good as anything, right?

This will be my last entry. I can tell you right now that I already feel different. It could be the jet-lag, or maybe just the lack of fatty substances in my digestive system, but home feels different than it used to feel. 36 hours ago I was staring up at the Fernsehturm in Berlin and now I am typing at my kitchen table. It’s surreal. Yesterday I was speaking nothing but German, and now when I accidentally throw a German word into a sentence, I get funny looks of incomprehension. For the last 2 and a half months, it has been exactly opposite. When talking to strangers, I immediately think in German first and then have to manually override to English (I said “danke schoen” more times than I care to admit in O’Hare airport). And when I explain the phenomena to my family or friends, they understandably think it odd.

When I got back last night and realized that I had stories and experiences to share. I had presents to give out. As I was giving them out, I realized that the little Hexe (witch) that I picked up in the Harz mountains for my sister and girlfriend meant absolutely nothing to them. I got a strange look from her, and it took me a second to realize why. She (nor anyone else in the room) had zero knowledge of the history or the culture from the place I got it. Then I realized that the Euros I had in my wallet were unlike any currency my family had ever seen. Then I realized that they had never seen the enormously large drinking glass called a Maß before. I hadn’t told them about the toilets that have two buttons in order to conserve water in flushes or how helpful and genuinely nice the Viennese are to travelers. I don’t think I had realized until last night exactly how unique my experience in Germany was.

Upon arrival in Germany everything was new and overwhelming. After a week I was still noticing differences. After about 5 weeks, I was used to the culture and felt comfortable and after 10 weeks, I did not think anything was unusual about Germany. After one day at home, I am again overwhelmed with the differences and just the sheer knowledge that I’ve gained from studying abroad. It feels as though all of these changes have been immediate, but I know my development has been slow and gradual (and sometimes painfully embarrassing).

In all honesty, I wish I could have stayed longer. My language development went from basic knowledge and an inability to understand a word my German uncle said on the phone to having a passionate discussion about family and life lessons on the last night of my stay in Germany. It’s simply unbelievable what eliminating a language barrier can do for a relationship, and Who knows what another 3 months could have done for me. The sad thing that has been pointed out to me (thanks Michelle) is that this is likely the high point of my life as a German speaker, and yet I feel like I have only taken my first steps. Language is a never ending puzzle, and yet you always feel like you are making progress. I’ll go back, but I have no idea when and I doubt it could possibly be for as long as this one.

My closing recommendations for anyone considering studying abroad (particularly to develop his/her foreign language ability):

1) Do it.

2) Stay with a host family if you can and learn everything that you can from them.

3) Travel alone or with someone you know will make the trip better. Anyone else can take away from the experience.

4) Don’t be apprehensive about speaking to people (specifically in Germany. They will help you).

5) Be open-minded, try everything, and revel in the idea that you could not see/taste/do those things anywhere else.

At the end, you’ll stand once again in your driveway, looking around at nothing in particular, and realize how naïve you once were and how great your experience really was, and then you will think two things: 1) Man, that Sean guy gave some really good advice, and 2) I need to start planning my trip back.

“When you say ‘I want to go to America,’ I say ‘Good luck!’”

The hardest languages in the world must be Chinese, some african click tongue, and then Polish. But even if you know one of the first two languages, you’ll still have problems with polish. There are so many ways to say one thing. For instance, there are three ways to say “I am going.” and all of them have different meanings. I can say “….” and a pole will know that I am going by tram. I can also say “idę” and a pole will know that I am going by foot (and then I get a response like “Good luck” like in the title of my journal). But I can also say “chodzę” and poles will know that I go somewhere regularly. However, they all mean “go.”  So it gets confusing.

And before these phrases can even be used, the pronunciation must be perfect otherwise “I want to go” (Chcę iść) can turn into “he wants to go” (Chce iść)  or “please” (Proszę) can turn into “Little pig” (Prosię). And then there’s just a huge problem of communication.

Surprisingly, I am learning a lot of polish. Five weeks ago the only polish I knew was how to say “Do you speak English” (Czy mówisz po angielsku?). But now I know how to ask where someone is from “Skąd jesteś?” and where some one lives “Gdzie mieszkasz?” I also know how to say what I’m interested in “interesuję się polityką” (I am interesting in politics), what i like to do “lubię robić zdjęcia, spotykać się z kolegami, i grać na gitarze” (I like to take photographs, meet with friends, and play the guitar), and i know how to tell everyone and anyone about my family “Moja rodzina jest z Ameryki. Mam matkę, ojca, i dwóch braci” (My family is from America. I have a mother, a father, and two brothers). I can also say where I went last night “wieczorem, poszedłem do restaurajci na kotleta” (Last night, I went to a restaurant for pork) Unfortunately, my teacher thought this was the funniest thing in the world so he started calling me “John Kotleta.” Literally “John Pork.”

And I just learned today how to say that I want to be a yellow banana “Chcę być Żółtym bananem!”

My classes are very fast. We go over things so quickly and then we are on to the next topic before we know it. The pace feels so much quicker than my classes back home. I feel as if I should already be speaking the polish language fluently. But of course I can’t!

My time here has really been an amazing experience. I’ve met so many different kinds of people and experienced so many different kinds of things (no worries, nothing bad!). All of the people I meet are so smart. Languages come to them like religion comes to the Pope. Most of the students here have been learning english and other languages since they were 10 years old. My friend from Germany can speak perfect english.  My friend from Kraków can speak almost perfect english, almost perfect french, perfect polish, and probably some other language he hasn’t told me about yet.

If there is one thing that frustrates me the most while being here, it is this. In America, languages seem to only be an option. American students are given an option to study a language but it doesn’t start until high school. Most students every where else in the world already know our language by the time we are trying to learn theirs.

Anyways, I made my first sunny-side up egg last night and everything is fine!

- John Kotleta

Ch-ch-changes.

Change is unavoidable. It can be good, it can be bad, it can be both. The key to change is whether you resist it or welcome it.

I know I have welcomed changed on this trip, but how? I can do my best to answer now, but at this moment I don’t feel I can give a complete answer. Trying to figure out everything that’s different about me, I think, will take spending a while back at home and being reminded of what life was like before I left. It’s like when you walk away from a conversation and think of the perfect thing to say a couple hours later. That kind of realization comes from hindsight, but this blog doesn’t continue into the rest of this year. Therefore, I will do my best to try and delve into what I can see at this moment in time that has transformed within me.

Before coming to Latin America, I had never been out of the United States. I had never seen or climbed mountains. I had never spoken Spanish. I had never lived with a family that wasn’t my own. I had never experienced first-hand a different culture. I had never dreamed that I could actually go places I had only seen to do things I had only heard about. I had never eaten guinea pig. Check, Check, check… My bucket list will be significantly shorter after this.

All of these experiences, and so many more, have made me feel quite small, which doesn’t happen that often to a 5’11” female. However, it hasn’t been so much the places and activities that made me feel like this, but meeting the people. I had never put life into this perspective coming from my small farm town and going to a dominantly white private school in the Midwest. Because of all these people that I’ve met and gotten to know, the one thing that I already know has changed for me personally has been an increased sense of understanding…not just of other cultures, but of myself as well.

I knew little to nothing about Latin America or the culture before coming here, and now know a great deal, including how people here live. They place much less emphasis on materialistic goods and instead invest in relationships with families and communities. I’ve learned that this culture is extremely laid back and the people here live together as a community, not as individuals. I’ve also learned about myself and how to be patient, which is a big feat since I am naturally a very impatient person in most cases. I’ve learned that I really do like home despite how much I tend to complain about it sometimes.

I understand now not just how others live their lives, but why. It has made me start to question my own motives for how I live my life and whether they are rational or legitimate. Some of my decisions, I find, are rather empty of reason. This is my senior year of college, and I’m realizing because of this trip that I’ve been going through the motions up until this point. I understand that I started college without a purpose except that going to college is what was expected of me. I’ve been planning on going on to graduate school, but is that what I want? Meeting and learning about people in South America makes me see the bigger picture on what kinds of motives should fuel my choices. People here consider their friends, family, and what would make them happy, not necessarily what will make them the most successful in other’s eyes. This reminds me of my host brother Paúl from Ecuador, who would do anything for his family. I could tell that he was genuinely happy putting his family first and that he was going to college because he had a purpose and wanted to learn. He wanted to be successful for personal pride and to help his family, not to impress others.

The people I’ve met aren’t so caught up in the fast-paced U.S. culture, but instead take the time to smell the roses. After this, I don’t think I’ll be taking as much for granted when I get home. I see how the people here treat each other and it has affected me deeply. Now I have more initiative to go out and find what it is I want my own to life to mean to me and how I should live it without major societal influences telling me what to do. I haven’t necessarily figured out my place in the world yet, but being here is inspiring me to reevaluate where that place should be according to the bigger picture. I am fully welcoming this change within me, and it is a lesson I will carry with me the rest of my life.

¡Bienvenido a México!

We finally made it to Mexico, marking the last few weeks of our trip here in Latin America. I am already really excited to get home because I miss it and the people so much, but at the same time I am enjoying my time here, so I think I’m in a good situation.

Another good thing about Mexico is that we get to live in a new country with different customs and ideals. That’s one thing that I love so much about Latin American term—we get to travel to different countries and compare and contrast them not only with the United States, but also with each other. It helps to un-generalize the entire Latin American region is the same and helps me see how each country is very unique even though they have some common ground. It’s quite wonderful, actually. :)

So in Mexico I am living with all brand new people. My roommate is Allison, who is one of my best friends from Augie, and I am living with two other Augie girls that I didn’t really know before this trip. All 4 of us live with Marilu (pronounced “Mary Lou”), who is our host Mom, and also another girl named Iris who is just a couple years older than us. She is from Wisconsin and has been here since August student teaching for her education degree, and her Spanish is very good. Mine has been getting a bit better in the sense that I am more comfortable using it in various situations, but it’s great to have her here to translate the more difficult things. Plus, Allison and I have become friends with her and she has showed us around Cuernavaca quite a bit.

Living with Marilu is vastly different from my time with my Ecuadorian host family. Here it’s much more how I would have expected living with a host family would be—we set the table, help wash dishes, have quicker meals, and so on. In Ecuador, Mamá refused to let us help with anything and it was a bit more nerve-racking because sometimes I wasn’t sure what kinds of things would be acceptable in someone else’s house.  Also, Ecuador was a bit more friendly in that various people were always over to hang out or for meals, but here the culture is different in that sense. I don’t know much about the family dynamic since it’s just us and Marilu, but most of us are not allowed to have friends over at all, and if they are allowed, absolutely not for meals. It’s also different in that Marilu has been hosting students for 16 years, so she knows much more about our culture from a student’s point of view.

The big difference is THE FOOD. It is so delicious!!!!! Ecuadorian and Peruvian food are very similar to each other and is rather bland, but authentic Mexican food is so flavorful, and as expected, spicy. It’s not Taco Bell, La Ranch, or any other “Mexican” place that we have back home, and I am excited to be able to make some of these dishes myself!

Toto…I have a feeling we’re back in Kansas?

By the beginning of October we’d been traveling around South America for over a month and so far everything had been vastly different from the United States. None of the major stores, products, restaurants, or fast food places have been spotted, except for the occasional McDonalds, Coca-cola, Doritos, and Oreos. Whenever we would see something familiar we would be surprised and excited since we’ve been away from the U.S. for so long. This got to the point where people were willing to pay over $2 for a Snickers candy bar when the local candy sitting next to it was 50 cents.

Then we came to Lima, Peru. It was so much like the U.S. it was weird. I was put off by the cities resemblance to southern California right on the Pacific Ocean.  It still had some of the characteristics of the South American cities that we had grown accustomed to, but it was so…Americanized. There was a mall near our hotel with Burger King, KFC, Pizza Hut, Starbucks, Chili’s, etc all lined up one right after another. The clothing stores looked exactly like stores back in the U.S. Our hotel had outlets with the correct voltage for our U.S. electronics and we were given menus in English. It felt like being home again, but it felt odd because I knew I wasn’t.

Why is it that culture of the U.S. has such a big influence on other nations? How did we become this big powerhouse of a nation where success and wealth meant being like us? We get these stereotypes of being snobbish, messy, and greedy by people in other countries, yet they sometimes wish to emulate us, like in Lima. It sort of has the feel of the stereotypical captain of the high school cheerleading team—you hated her but still wanted to be like her.

After spending some time in South America I am starting to see why perhaps these countries value being like us instead of wanting to retain their own culture (this seems to only apply to large cities). I’ve found in South America a greater importance in family and being happy where you are; here they just want to survive. In U.S. culture we have greater value placed upon having wealth, success, and power and are constantly trying to get ahead materialistically. The media outlets of the U.S. have grown so powerful that images of what it’s like to live here are spreading out to other countries, and they see how we live and they start to want that too. It’s the outside influence that the U.S. places on countries of South America that makes them think that perhaps they shouldn’t just be happy with family and happiness but need more money and material goods like us instead. They see that life can be different and naively think it must be better since our nation is so powerful economically, politically, and technologically. I witnessed this In Ecuador where it meant a higher social status if people wore clothing from the U.S. This was because clothing from the U.S. was much more expensive, so if you were able to afford it, you had more money.

Yet there are people in these countries that don’t like people from the U.S. I suspect that for the most part it is the older generations that tend to not like people from the U.S. while the younger generations try to be more like us.  I believe the older people in these countries see how materialistic we can be and don’t like it, while the younger folk are more impressionable and instead of disliking us want to be like us because of the media influence.  It is also the case that different people have had different experiences with people from the U.S., whether they are good or bad. I think when people of South America have bad experiences with those from the U.S. they generalize by what country they are from instead of other influential characteristics of that person.

I do, however, have hope for a better future not only for South America, but for a better relationship between South American countries and the U.S.

The top of the world has butterflies.

Wow.

I was just on top of the world. Literally. It was so amazing that I am still a little awestruck. It’s so hard to describe something that you have to feel and experience for yourself to understand the magnitude of it, but I am going to try.

One of the things I was looking forward to the most when I decided to come on Latin American term was Machu Picchu. Little did I know that it wasn’t going to be all that exciting to me. The morning we went to visit Machu Picchu we hiked up the side of the mountain (3,000 stairs…holy cow) to the Incan ruins starting at 5 in the morning after sleeping in 2 person tents at the base of the mountain, just outside of the town Aguascalientes. When we arrived at the entrance to Machu Picchu around 5:50am the line was already very long to enter. There were so many factors that made the day very difficult and my legs were dead and felt like jelly…but as we waited we were able to watch the sunrise hit the mountain tops, and that view was so worth it.

sunrise at Machi Picchu

Then I came to realize that Machu Picchu actually looked a lot like the ruins that we had seen several times before in various parts of Ecuador and Peru, except that they were on the side of a beautiful mountain. It was pretty cool, but didn’t seem to live up to the tourist hype. All of the postcards and pictures I had seen of Machu Picchu were the ruins on the left, and then this large mountain on the right overlooking them, but the large mountain wasn’t part of Machu Picchu—it was Huayna Picchu. The second I realized we had the chance to climb Huayna Picchu I knew I had to conquer it, and that’s where the exciting part of the day began.

Augies at Machu Picchu

Only 400 people per day get to climb Huayna Picchu, and after seeing the long line of people for Machu Picchu we were lucky to get the chance. We started around 10am and on a perfect, clear, sunny day that meant the hike was going to be a sweaty one with lots of bugs. (It didn’t disappoint and I am very grateful that I brought anti-itch cream with me.) The hike itself was another tough climb after I had already exhausted my legs climbing up Machu Picchu earlier that morning, but I just kept going one step at a time for about 35 minutes through the exhaustion and heat.

And then…I was on top of the world—both literally and figuratively. It was worth walking up 10 times more stairs to get there it was so breathtaking. I couldn’t get enough as I stood on the jagged rocks absorbing the sun and the view all around me. I didn’t want to leave and was up there for about an hour. I’m at a loss for words again because it’s one of those things when someone asks me what it’s like and I am speechless as the feeling of standing up there warms me from head to toe and all I can do is smile and say something nonsensical like “the top of the world has butterflies.”

me on top of Huayna Picchu

It made me feel happy, relieved, amazed, awestruck, tiny, big, fully energized, but most of all—grateful. It’s an odd feeling to have while standing on top of a mountain surrounded at eye level with other mountain tops, but I was grateful that something so beautiful not only exists in this world, but that I was experiencing it, thirstily drinking it in, and that I was able to appreciate where I was while I was there. This happens very rarely in our lives; so many of those powerful moments flutter by without us stopping to look around. Most of us can only fully appreciate something amazing in hindsight after reflecting upon it, but I was lucky that at that point in time I was able to feel the wonder and beauty of life all around me.

¡Barcelona!

¡Hola from España!

Classes officially ended last week…and now we´ve got free time to travel. So…

Alex, Joe, and I thought it would be fun to go to yet another country where we don´t speak the language: SPAIN!

Barcelona is amazing. The weather is perhaps the best part. It has been about 70+ degrees each day we´ve been here and sunny. Coming from the frigid Wittenberg climate, we of course all packed the wrong clothes and have plenty of long-sleeves and pants to last us until next Winter…but not a single pair of shorts, or–perhaps worse–FLIP FLOPS!

Anyway…our flight landed in Barcelona at around noon on Friday. It took us  F O R E V E R to figure out the train and subway system here. We finally figured it out and what should have taken us about 40 minutes to get to the city and our hostel took about 2 1/2 hours. Alas, we arrived and are enjoying ourselves.

Our first night here, we went out to eat and enjoyed some Sangria (wine with fruit slices) and Paella. Traditional Spanish! It was really delicious, but a bit pricey; the three of us dropped €72 for this meal. Yikes! It was well worth it, though.

We´ve seen plenty here. Including the cathedral de la Sagrada Familia, which has been under construction since the late 1800s; Park Guell; and a castle in Park Montjuic. We´ve yet to be disappointed by anything so far. The highlight of today has to be the hour we spent on the beach. It´s November 1st and we were sitting on a beach in Spain and even getting our feet wet in the Mediterranean! Indescrible.

Well…I better get going now, we´re going to a Tapas bar for dinner and maybe a stroll through town.

hasta luego — Louie

On the Way Out

Today is my last full day in Wittenberg. I can’t say it’s been eventful, but I’ve had some time to reflect. I packed up my things for a good part of the day. Then I went for a run and finally climbed a really steep hill I’d been looking to climb for a couple weeks (really soft, sandy slopes and forgetting exactly where it was hindered earlier efforts). Once I reached the top I looked out over the landscape of the outer Wittenberg area. I could see the Schlosskirche, the Stadtkirche and everything in between. (I later got lost in a densely wooded forest, which makes one appreciate even more the view one has from a high point). It was pleasant.

As I stood at the top of the hill looking over Wittenberg, I thought about the fact that I would probably never stand in that same place again. After over 2 months in the same place, a thought like that really hits home. I’m still not going back to America for a week and a half, but leaving what I’ve called home for the past couple months almost feels the same way it did when I left Illinois for Germany. It’s weird how that works.

I’ve rediscovered a lot of things about myself that I had forgotten and some things I didn’t know about myself at all. I believe I have become more confident and adventurous. I think that happens when you have to try to communicate a point to someone in a foreign language; suddenly communicating making a speech in English is not that hard, nor is it intimidating. I’ve become more adventurous and outgoing. When you have so much free time in a foreign country, you have to push yourself to talk to people in order to get something out of it. The shame of it is, I feel like there is still more improvement to be had. Damn these short trimesters…

I’ve formed relationships here that I won’t ever be able to forget. My host family has been great and I almost think of them as actual family after only such a short time. I can’t say I’ve made a great number of friends while here, but the few new ones I have made count for more than I could have ever predicted. Unfortunately it is time to leave the fantasy that has been studying abroad to return to the grind of real school work and applying to graduate school.

Tomorrow is Reformationsfest (large celebration in Wittenberg for the anniversary of something specifically Lutheran, but I’ve forgotten what exactly. I think I have a Luther overload at this point) and then a train to Berlin to see my uncle. Then I leave for Vienna on Monday. This could be my last post from Europe but I’ll try to squeeze in one more. Bis spaeter, meine Freunde!

MEXICO CHALLENGE Day 7 (el ultimo dia)

It’s officially 12:05 am and I’m ready to celebrate the end of the Challenge by logging onto Facebook for the first time in a week (I kind of wanted a Big Mac, but it’s a little late right now… tomorrow?).  Before I go anywhere, I’d like to take a moment to reflect on the past week.

In the last seven days, I’ve been to Mexico City, seen a Ballet performance and an Orchestra Concert, hung out in my new favorite cafe overlooking the Zocalo, eaten Tostadas, Tamales, Quesadillas, and lots of Tortillas, visted the artisan market and talked with my host-nietos and some high school teachers from Cuernavaca.

In the last seven days, I have not: Eaten at McDonalds (even though it was our bathroom break and you had to buy something to use the restroom), been on Facebook, Twitter, or any other American site (Save research for my history paper and email. It’s easy enough when Google only gives you Spanish results anyway), watched any American programming (novelas are way cooler), nor have I purchased OR consumed, any American snacks (ahem… Dr. Bertsche).

In the last seven days, I’ve learned a lot about myself and where I’ve come from. I’ve noticed a lot of the Mexican customs that are familiar to me, but a little odd for others. When we got to Ecuador, we were told to greet everyone with a kiss on the cheek and before you leave, say goodbye to everyone. A lot of people I know forget this and it’s sometimes funny to see their reactions when they’re suddenly greeted by a stranger. When I was having coffee with Gabi, Olga and Sara the other night, it was like a revolving door of their friends. It reminded me a lot of Christmas time and meeting the cousins and aunts I never knew I had, but I get up and kiss each of them on the cheek to say hello anyway.

In the last seven days I’ve found new and interesting ways to combat boredom, including, but not limited to: changing all of the settings on my laptop to look like Halloween, taking long walks to the Zocalo before class just to get coffee, watching the Mexican version of MTV(when MTV was still music videos), coloring Day of the Dead pictures with my host-nietos, playing with their pet-baby python (still unnamed), walking through the market in search of the tackiest pair of earrings I could find, and completely ripping on the sources I’ve found for my history paper (Dr. Todd would be proud at how critically I’m thinking about their origins and intent ;-) ).

In the last seven days, I’ve explored new places. I had no idea there was a market next to Burger King! I’ve also discovered three new ways to get to the Zocalo…. none of them are any faster than the original way I knew. I’ve also gotten to know the people at the taquilla at Teatro Ocampo where I saw the Ballet and the Orchestra Concert (I always got there a little late… whoops!).

Most importantly, in the last seven days I’ve pushed myself beyond my comfort zone and had some really cool experiences as a result. If I hadn’t bought those tickets to the ballet, I would have never met Gabi, Olga and Sara. If I hadn’t met them, I would have never learned to salsa and I would still be conjugating everything in the present tense and not venturing to flirt with the subjunctive.

I got beyond feeling awkward sitting alone at a table staring at people going by and noticed something special that I hadn’t before. It wasn’t until I watched girls my age (and older) walking hand in hand with their mothers going down the street, that I made the connection between private family life and public family life: There isn’t a difference. How many times have you put up with the embarrassing things your family does at home, and then not want to be seen with them in public? Maybe some of that goes on here too,  but never in the US have I seen families go out of their way to “be together” in public the way I have in Mexico.  Except here, they’re not going out of their way…They’re family and it’s completely natural.

It’s 12:55 am on the 8th day and I no longer feel like going on Facebook.